I came across a great quote “Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind won’t matter and those who matter won’t mind” . In my work as a Counsellor I am so often presented with so many illogical reasons why someone can’t just be themselves and usually it is because […]
Have you ever paid attention to the narrative you tell yourself? I’m too fat; I’m not good at relationships; No one really likes me; I’m rubbish at…; I’m boring; I’ve got to be the best; Everyone is cleaver than I; etc. etc. Some of these things may be true but if we go around telling ourselves them constantly and also […]
The return to sunshine and lighter, longer days is usually an uplifting thing. We feel more hopeful, more alive than those dark days of winter. We want to renew and refresh our homes and sometimes our lives. However for some of us we don’t feel that renewed energy – we just feel worse that we […]
Usually we just accept that things are ‘just the way they are’ and in particular ‘I am just the way I am’. But usually we haven’t given much thought to this particular way of being – it is just how it is. Until……..things start to go wrong, really wrong and we can’t seem to make […]
Some People have a clear vision of what life should be like Some People just jump into life head on Some People are always afraid of what could happen Some People just embrace what does and make the most of it Some People are never happy Some People never want anyone to know […]
For some forgiveness is easy but for others it is not. Abuse, neglect, abandonment, cruetly etc. etc, especially if they happen to a vulnerable child are sometimes hard to overcome. But arn’t we meant to fogive these actions in order to get on with our lives? I would suggest that sometimes it is just not possible to forgive […]
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