“Be Who You Are and Say What you Feel…”

I came across a great quote “Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind won’t matter and those who matter won’t mind” .  In my work as a Counsellor I am so often presented with so many illogical reasons why someone can’t just be themselves and usually it is because […]

June 18, 2020 in Uncategorized by

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Our Negative Thoughts Makes Us Anxious

Have you ever paid attention to the narrative you tell yourself? I’m too fat;  I’m not good at relationships;  No one really likes me;  I’m rubbish at…;   I’m boring;  I’ve got to be the best;  Everyone is cleaver than I;  etc. etc. Some of these things may be true but if we go around telling ourselves them constantly and also […]

May 9, 2019 in Anger, Anxiety, Counselling, Counselling online, counselling via skype, couples counselling, Depression, Domestic violence, english counsellors for ex-pats, ex-pat counselling, Online Counselling, relationship counselling, Relationships, Skype Counselling, Skype Therapy, Stress by

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Who Are You?

Usually we just accept that things are ‘just the way they are’ and in particular ‘I am just the way I am’.  But usually we haven’t given much thought to this particular way of being – it is just how it is.  Until……..things start to go wrong, really wrong and we can’t seem to make […]

April 1, 2019 in Addiction, Anger, Anxiety, Borderline Personality Disorder, Counselling, couples counselling, Depression, Domestic violence, Face to Face Counselling in Haywards Heath, Online Counselling, Panic Attacks, Psychotherapy, relationship counselling, Stress by

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BOOTCAMP – FOR THE MIND!!!

Thinking of getting into shape Physically?  What about getting into shape Emotionally? “If you have health, you probably will be happy and if you have health and happiness, you have all the wealth you need, even if it is not all you want”. – Elbert Hubbard Sometimes being happy and having peace of mind is […]

February 24, 2017 in Addiction, Anger, Counselling, Counselling online, counselling via skype, couples counselling, Depression, english counsellors for ex-pats, ex-pat counselling, Online Counselling, Relationships, Skype Counselling by

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